There are cases when, for example, a man really believes that relationships “on the side” help his family remain strong and seemingly happy. This is how he sees it and explains: “I’m quite happy with everything, and my wife doesn’t even know about anything (or he just wants to think so). I’m always in a good mood and don’t “molest” my wife, which means I don’t care.” I’ll have to listen to how tired she is during the day or how her head hurts and she doesn’t want anything anymore. But I have a woman who never refuses me anything. At the same time, my wife is not obliged to devote time to me, because I do. There’s enough of everything. Sometimes even with her we can have pretty good sex, which was already a rarity before. In addition, I think my mistress is in a good position, because she doesn’t have to cook for me, constantly clean or iron my shirts. We just enjoy each other as much as we want and whenever we want. Isn’t this a dream that also has a positive effect on our relationship with my wife...?” Sometimes men who think this way don’t even mind if their own wife also has a lover, after all. Formally, the family is still preserved, for example, for children, but at the same time, everyone is happy in their own way and is already with someone else... What can you say? Of course, I have no right to condemn anyone and everyone can live as they see fit, especially if everything is more than everyone is happy with. But, as for me, this cannot go on forever and this is still a rather selfish position, which to a greater extent will satisfy only one person, mainly a man, and not all the “participants” of this action. Therefore, you should not forget about the boomerang and you still need to make some final decision for yourself, and not just like this for the rest of your life rush between two fires. This is just my opinion on this topic. Yes, I could be wrong, but for me personally, this is no longer a family, but only some kind of unfortunate parody of it... Take care of yourself. My course for women who want to be happy in a relationship with a man: here Book a consultation with me: hereMy services as an author of articles for fellow psychologists: hereIf the article was useful and interesting for you, do not forget to click “thank you” and also subscribe so as not to miss my new articles) Sincerely, Your psychologist, Victoria Kirsta